Say This, Not That: 13 Power Words That Can Help You Sell
The secret to getting to “yes” during your next sales call may be as simple as giving out power words.
We’ve gathered 13 powerful phrases that are proven to help build rapport and boost your credibility (as well as their counterparts to avoid). Give yourself an edge by understanding which words make people tense up and which words put them at ease.
1. Talking with
“Talking with” someone instead of “speaking to” them can make a world of difference, especially when making a first impression. That’s because “talking with” implies a back-and-forth. You’re implying that you and your prospect are going to be engaging in a conversation.
In contrast, “speaking to” describes a one-way action. It suggests that you are going to broadcast your message — whether they want to listen or not.
2. You are
One of our favorite places to learn about persuasive techniques is Dave Straker’s Changing Minds website, which is full of psychological theories that are easy to understand and put into action. Here’s his explanation about why this subtle change of phrase can work in your favor:
Saying “you are” rather than “are you” is a more assertive frame, but phrased as a question it is usually acceptable. Nevertheless by agreeing with you, they are putting themselves in a position where they are accepting your assertions and thus will more likely repeat this pattern in the future.
This tactic is part of the yes-set close, a classic closing technique. Here’s how it works:
- Ask at least three questions where the answer is an easy ‘yes’.
- When a pattern is established, slip in the question that you really want a yes answer to.
- It’s human nature to want to continue to say yes after establishing a rapport.
3. Decision making process
Asking a yes-or-no question like “are you the decision maker?” can sometimes backfire by prompting your prospect to lie to you. No one wants to feel unimportant. So instead of saying no, he may just answer yes — and leave out the part that what he’s really deciding is whether to refer you to his boss.
Instead, try asking about their decision making process and who else will be participating. This prompts a different type of response, making it less likely you’ll discover too late that someone else is making the final call.
4. Thank You
Studies show that explicitly thanking someone for her time makes her feel friendlier towards you, inspires her to feel more self-confident, and makes her more likely to help you again.
5. How (and the 5 W’s)
The way you formulate questions directly affects how useful the answers will be. Journalist-turned-entrepreneur Evan Ratliff has said his secret to asking great questions is leading with the 5 W’s: ‘who,’ ‘what,’ ‘where,’ ‘when,’ and ‘how.’
Starting a question with these words allows for an open response. The more your prospect talks, the more you learn more about him, his organization, and his needs. Conversely, questions beginning with ‘would,’ ‘should,’ ‘is,’ ‘are,’ and ‘do you think,’ can limit the way he responds to you.
‘Because,’ one of our ultimate power words, is considered one of the five most persuasive words in the English language.
Justifying a request or statement with ‘because’ immediately answers, “what’s in it for me?” This technique has been proven to make people more likely to comply with your request.
Rather than boring your prospects with a list of features, ask them to imagine the benefits of purchasing your product. This way, you bypass the point in the conversation during which your prospect has the opportunity to offer up objections.
Asking someone to go through the motions mentally can also make them more likely to follow through.
One of the basic rules of improv comedy is that no matter what your fellow actors present to you, instead of negating it or disagreeing with it, your job is to say, “Yes, and..” It keeps the conversation flowing and open to possibility.
Eliminating ‘but’ from your vocabulary and replacing it with the power word ‘and’ can have a similar effect when talking with prospects. Instead of dismissing his ideas mid sentence, ‘and’ acknowledges his contribution to the discussion and makes it feel like you’re both working towards the same goals.
10. I don’t know
11. You’re welcome
While it may be more common to respond to an expression of thanks or gratitude with a breezy ‘no problem,’ stick with the age-old acknowledgment, “you’re welcome.” The word ‘problem’ has negative connotations; it suggests that, under other circumstances, you would have been reluctant to grant the favor.
Saying “you’re welcome” dignifies the other person’s gratitude and is another way of saying “you’re worth it.”
Emphasize value over price when presenting your product. Discussing value is results-oriented and prompts your client to ponder the advantages of your product. Mentioning price, however, highlights what he will lose — something you want to steer clear from as people are naturally inclined to avoid loss.
We also know that mentioning money makes people feel more self sufficient, physically withdrawn, and less likely to help others — psychologically blocking your prospect’s ability to get to yes.
13. How does that sound to you?
Does that make sense?
If you feel a little put off by the words above, you’re not alone. That’s because the expression “does that make sense” is packed with two negative implications:
- Uncertainty about the accuracy of your message
- Doubt about your listener’s ability to comprehend or appreciate your message.
Ouch. Try using “how does that sound?” instead. These power words can help you sell by keeping the conversation going and opening the floor for questions.
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