Just a Reminder: How to Write a Reminder Email [Examples + Templates]

Just a Reminder: How to Write a Reminder Email [Examples + Templates]

Reminder emails are a great way to connect with someone regarding an upcoming appointment, a missed deadline, or a follow-up to a meeting. 

Despite how frequently they’re written, polite reminder emails can prove tricky to execute effectively. Finding the right tone, the right words, the right number, and the right time to send all require a little bit of finesse.

If your note is too blunt — or fired off too soon — you risk coming off as rude; if you’re too passive, your email (and its enclosed request) may be overlooked or flat-out ignored.

We’ve created a handy guide of everything you need to know about how to write a gentle reminder email that gets your point across politely and effectively.

Here’s what we’ll cover:

What Is a Reminder Email?

A reminder email is an email message you send to someone to:

  • Prepare them for an upcoming event, appointment, deadline, etc.
  • Provide or request a status update, recap, or other information
  • Highlight the fact that an event, deadline, etc. have passed
  • Provide a gentle reminder after lapsed communication

what is a reminder emailPeople send reminder emails for all kinds of reasons, both personal and professional. You may need to send a reminder email when:

  • There’s an upcoming meeting or event
  • Your client has not paid their invoice
  • A deadline is upcoming or has been missed 
  • The recipient needs a polite nudge to act

This list is not exhaustive; people use reminder emails for a huge variety of reasons.

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Why Are Reminder Emails Important?

Reminder emails are important because they help the recipient focus on what’s important. 

Over 330 billion emails per day are sent and received worldwide.

reminder email: number of emails sent and received per day

Reminder emails help recipients cut through the clutter and identify what needs immediate attention in their inbox. 

They can also go a long way in helping your recipients feel like you care about them. Taking time out of your day to send a reminder email helps your prospects and customers feel valued and supported.

When to Write a Reminder Email

If you find yourself in the position of needing to send a friendly reminder, don’t stress — it likely has nothing to do with you.

The average business person gets nearly 121 emails in a single day; the sheer volume of incoming messages makes it no surprise that some are unintentionally overlooked or deprioritized.

With that in mind, remember to give your recipient the benefit of the doubt as you draft your reminder. Remember the old saying: you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. 

That being said, no matter how polite your main message is, timing can be tricky.

Reminder emails are used for a variety of circumstances, and there’s some email etiquette involved in making sure the timing of your message is appropriate. Knowing exactly when to send a reminder email is just as important as knowing what to write inside. Here are a few rules of thumb.

1. Confirming an Upcoming Appointment

In general, it’s best to send a polite reminder email about an upcoming appointment or due date about 3 days before the appointment.

This gives the recipient plenty of heads up to rearrange their calendar if need be but is close enough to the appointment date that it won’t slip their mind later on. 

2. Pending Interviews or Sales Follow-Ups

Here’s another example where timing might feel delicate.

If you’re waiting for feedback or follow-up when someone on the other end is making a decision — maybe you interviewed for a job or gave your prospect a killer sales pitch — bite your tongue for a little while longer.

It can be hard to wait for (hopefully) good news, but sending a reminder email too soon can make you seem pushy. For interviews, 5 business days (a week) is a good rule of thumb here. For sales, around 3-4 days is a good rule of thumb.

Tip: If you’re in sales, we found first-hand in our data analysis of ten million email threads that in the most successful email sequences, sales reps follow up on their previous email by roughly 3-4 days, as seen in the chart below.  reminder email: average follow-up cadence

The data also indicates that waiting to send your reminder email/follow-up email for more than four days typically leads to less of a chance of getting a response.

3. Late Payments or Missed Deadlines

Following up about missed payments or overdue work can be uncomfortable; many people make the mistake of putting it off to delay a possible confrontation. In the long run, though, it’s best to tackle this kind of reminder efficiently.

The longer you wait to send a reminder, the bigger the consequences become; missed payments and deadlines have an exponential impact on a company’s bottom line as time goes on. It’s perfectly acceptable to send these types of reminder emails 24 hours after the missed deadline. 

How to Write a Friendly Reminder Email

The exact content of your reminder email will be situation-specific, but there are a few components to include no matter the circumstances.

1. Greeting

The greeting or salutation you choose will depend on how familiar you are with the recipient. “Dear” is generally a safe bet, as is going straight to “Mr./Ms./Mrs.” Both of these options are considered more formal. 

“Hi” and “Hello” are on the more casual side, and should be reserved for definitively friendly relationships. Remember, this is still a professional email and you should err on the side of being polite and respectful.

2. Pleasantries

Start your email with a positive tone. While the overall message should be short and succinct, it’s good form to open your note with some niceties: 

  • A compliment: “Great job with the brown bag presentation last week!”
  • Gratitude: “Thanks so much for your time yesterday at the product demo.”
  • General well-wishes: “I hope you’re enjoying this fantastic weather!”

Don’t go overboard, and make sure whatever you choose to open with is authentic. If you can’t think of anything specific or relevant, the old “I hope this email finds you well” is always a good fallback. 

3. Main Message

After your intro, get straight to the point. Give appropriate context about why you’re sending a reminder in the first place, including any relevant dates or other details, but leave the play-by-play out of it.

People’s attention span for emails is shockingly short:

reminder email

Reminder emails usually have some sort of “response required” aspect to them, so you want to make sure your main message doesn’t get lost in a sea of other superfluous text. Because this is a reminder and not an initial contact, it’s okay to be briefer than you normally would.

4. CTA/Closing

Most reminder emails will require that you sign off by including some kind of call to action (CTA) in order to know that the reminder has been effective. A call to action is essentially a statement or request to the email recipient indicating what you want them to do after they read your note.

Here are a few examples of CTAs you might include in a reminder email: 

  • Please send the whitepaper by no later than 5:00pm today, Thursday April 8.
  • Don’t forget to add the SaaS Sales workshop to your calendar for Wednesday, October 3 at 12pm!
  • The offer we discussed is valid through Friday 11/14. Sign the proposal today to take advantage of the Early Bird discount we discussed last week.
  • Please don’t forget to RSVP by Saturday 9/21!

Your CTA should be crisp and action-oriented. Make it easy for the recipient to do what you’re asking by adding links and easily accessible details where possible. Sign off with your standard email signature, or your name and phone number.

We’ve said it before, but it bears repeating: remember to give your recipient the benefit of the doubt (yes, even the ones with late payments or missed deadlines). Life catches up to all of us once in a while, and a bit of grace goes a long way in building trust.

Tip: Grab some email templates for your reminder emails below.

18 Proven Email Templates for SalesWinning email templates for cold outreach, follow-ups, and nurturing relationships – backed by data and real-world examples.

Tips for Successful Reminder Emails (and How to Follow-up If They’re Not)

By nature, most reminder emails have some sense of urgency involved. They usually indicate that something important has already passed, or an upcoming event is on the horizon.

This means that it’s important that your reminder emails convert. Here are some of our best strategies for making sure your email is effective and gets your desired result.

1. Perfect Your Subject Line

Your email subject line can really make or break the outcome of your reminder email:

reminder email: subject line

Pre-empting your subject line with something like “[response required]” is a good way to get your recipient’s attention and let them know that you’re looking for some kind of communication back from them. 

Of course, only use this where appropriate — you probably won’t make this kind of disclaimer for something like an event reminder or to follow-up about a job application, but it can call the right amount of attention to emails that need input from the recipient. 

Otherwise, keep your subject lines succinct and specific. Reference the matter at hand without fuss or frills.

There’s a time and a place for trendy, attention-grabbing headlines — this isn’t it. Use enough words to make your intention clear, no more and no less.

reminder email: open rate by subject line length

2. Automate Your Reminder Emails

Stay on top of your follow-ups by automating your sales outreach.

With Yesware Campaigns, you can automate follow-up emails to go out when prospects don’t respond to your first outreach.

reminder email: Yesware Campaigns

3. Tee It Up

Make it as easy as possible for your recipient to take action on your reminder. Reminder emails are meant for tying up loose ends, so your time will be well-spent preemptively eliminating any roadblocks or potential confusion. 

  • Add links wherever possible, like directly to your sales checkout page or meeting scheduler. Make it easy for the recipient to do what you’re asking.
  • Include relevant dates and times, and be specific. 
  • Make your CTA clear, concise, and agreeable. 

You might also consider sending a reminder message directly within a previous chain of communication, to give your recipient an easy point of reference. Highlighting relevant information in a different color text is another great way of easily getting your recipient quickly up-to-speed about what needs doing.

4. Study Behavior

Over time, and with the right tools, you can use data to improve the effectiveness and success rate of your reminder emails. There are various data points that you can track in order to better reach your prospects and customers:

  • Open rate: Research shows that emails are more likely to be opened depending on the day of the week and time of day. Surprisingly, for example, open rates are highest on Fridays.
  • A/B Testing: Comparing the success rate of two different email templates or subject lines is a great way to put your best foot forward each time you write a reminder email.
  • Recipient engagement: Email tracking software can help you see how long your emails are read and how your recipient interacts with them when they’re open.

10 Reminder Email Templates

Reminder emails don’t need to be complicated. Sometimes, though, the short and simple emails are the hardest to get right.

Feel free to copy and paste the following proven reminder email templates to help get you started. Don’t forget to tweak as needed to fit your specific circumstances or personality.

1. Appointment Confirmation Email

Hi {!First name},

Just a quick note to confirm our appointment on {!Date} at {!Time}.

If that time no longer works, please feel free to find a time more convenient for you: {Calendar link}. My calendar is up to date.

See you soon!

{Your name}

2. Event Reminder Email

Hi {!First name}!

Just a friendly reminder about {!Event name} coming up on {!Date} and {!Time}. 

Refreshments will be provided. Please also bring your preferred device or paper tools for taking notes. 

If your plans have changed and you can no longer make it, please reply to this email. Otherwise, we look forward to seeing you there!

Please reach out with any questions. 


{Your name}

3. Sales Follow-Up Email After No Response

Hi {!Name},

I’ve sent you a few emails now, with no response. Is it possible I’m reaching out to the wrong person?

I don’t want to take any more of your time — could you kindly connect me with the person at {!Company} who handles purchasing decisions?


{Your name}

4. Overdue Payment Reminder Email

Hi {!First name},

I hope you’re doing well.

Just a quick note to confirm the status of {!Invoice number or missed milestone}. The {payment or work} was due on 02/01/2022. At a week past due, we are at risk of [account consequences or delayed timeline].

Kindly submit {payment/work} as soon as possible, or advise as to when I should expect it.


{Your name}

5. Gentle Reminder Email to a Boss

Hi {!First name},

Just a quick reminder that I submitted a leave request last week for the dates of {!Date} – {!Date}. Can you kindly review when you have a moment so that I can plan accordingly? 


{Your name}

6. Reminder Email to a Client

Hi {!Client name}!

Hope you’re doing well. I know you’re busy so I’ll be brief — any chance you had a moment to locate the info I requested on {!Date} (copied below)? The project is a bit held up on my end without that and I’d love to complete it for you as soon as possible! 

Thanks for your attention!

{Your name}

7. Pending Interview/Deal Reminder Email

Hi {!Name},

I hope this note finds you well and enjoying {something relevant — a prior topic of conversation, a company event, or even the weather}.

I’m writing to follow up about our {interview/meeting} on {!Date}. Have you had time to consider next steps?

I look forward to hearing from you!


{Your name}

8. Friendly Reminder Email: Lapsed Communication

Hi {!Name},

It’s been a little while — I hope things are great!

Just wanted to circle back to where we left off a couple of weeks ago. Did you have a chance to come to consensus with your team about next steps?

I’m hosting a webinar {or, share content} around some of the topics we discussed at our last meeting. I saved you a spot if you’d like to join! Click here to register: {include link}.

Looking forward to your thoughts,

{Your name}

9. Valuable Post-Meeting Reminder Email

Hi {!Name},

Hope you’re doing well! Thanks for your time earlier this week — I’m still impressed with the way {!Company} is doing {!Industry action 1} and {!Industry action 2}.

As promised, here is {!Name’s} case study. With, {!Your company or product}, {!Name} was able to:

  • {!Achievement or transformation #1}
  • {!Achievement or transformation #2}
  • {!Achievement or transformation #3}

With some quick back-of-the-napkin math based on the data you shared this week, that could look like the following for {!Company}

  • {Potential result for prospect company #1}
  • {Potential result for prospect company #2}
  • {Potential result for prospect company #3}

10. Sales Follow-Up Reminder Email: Content Offer

Hi {!Name},

I just came across this article [link] and it reminded me of our last conversation. A couple of takeaways:

  • Relevant Point #1
  • Relevant Point #2

I’d love to hear your thoughts, once you have a chance to read it. {!Company} has been on my mind lately and I was excited to come across this article for you.

Talk soon,

{Your name}

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Reminder Email Examples

Gentle Nudge to a Client 

Hi Darlene,

Hope you’re doing well. I hate to bug you as I know you have a lot going on — any chance you had a moment to locate those sales stats I was hoping to include in your case study (copied below)? The project is a bit held up on my end without that and I’d love to complete it for you as soon as possible! I think you’re going to love it!

  • YOY Revenue Growth
  • ARR
  • ROI
  • Churn Rate

Thanks so much,


Webinar Reminder Email

Hi Julian!

Just a friendly reminder about Yesware’s Sales in the Remote World Webinar, coming up on April 12 at 3:00pm EDT.

A unique password will be sent to the email that you used to register for the event. The presentation will run for about 45 minutes, with 15 minutes reserved for questions following the presentation. 

If your plans have changed and you can no longer attend, please reply to this email. Otherwise, we look forward to “seeing” you there!

Please reach out with any questions. 



Pinging Your Boss

Hi Adeline,

Just a quick reminder that I submitted a leave request last week for the dates of February 20 – February 23. 

Can you kindly review when you have a moment so that I can move forward with my travel plans, or rearrange accordingly? 



Confirming an Appointment

Hi Roger, 

Just a quick note to confirm our appointment this Thursday, May 23 at 2:30pm. Should take less than 30 minutes. 

If that time no longer works, please feel free to find a time more convenient for you: {Calendar link}. My calendar is up to date. 

See you soon,


Re-Engaging a Cold Lead

Hi Rita, 

It’s been a while — I hope you’re doing great! I’m jealous of the weather down there!

Just wanted to circle back to where we left off a couple of weeks ago. Did you have a chance to come to a consensus with your team about the next steps? 

I’m hosting a webinar around some of the topics we discussed at our last meeting. There are a few spots left, so I wanted to put it on your radar. Here’s the registration link: Yesware Webinar Registration: {link}. 

Looking forward to your thoughts, 


This guide was updated on April 5, 2023.

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